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How to Date a Smart and Brainy Person

Dating can be a challenging activity for most singles. It's a already a common perception that most singles really try show what they've got or "put their best foot forward" especially in the early stages of the relationship. That is why you need to observe and examine the personality of the other person so that you will able to see early on that you're able to connect with him or her. Compatibility is important although if you're really attracted to someone whom you think that he or she is truly the right one for you then you'll try to look for common interests that will connect you with this person.

Of course, most singles really like to date smart and brainy individuals as much as possible. Intelligent singles have more to offer since they usually like to research, have extensive reading experiences, and they talk sensible topics that you can even learn while dating with them. However, other singles prefer the average because intellectual people may sometimes open topics that are difficult to grasp and could lead to boredom to their dates. 

Although this will also depend on each intellectual person because some of them are sensitive enough and when they notice that it's time for them to shift the topic then it's easy for them to do because they are smart so the relationship can still work well. If you're dating a smart and brainy person whom you really like and he or she also feels the same way about you, then this article may be able to provide you some tips in order to improve the relationship. 

It's really not that hard to date an intelligent person if both of you really like one another. You can display your interest by asking him or her some questions about the topics or subjects he or she likes to talk about. You can also try to read about the hobbies and interests that he or she is passionate for and at the same time this person will do the same thing for you. When you have known each others interests and passions then the two of you will love and enjoy each others company.

Sharing each others thoughts and ideas when you're dating is truly nice but make sure that it doesn't sound like one of you is attending a class or inside a lecture room. Dating is fun and interesting if both partners show respect and real interest in each others point of views. When one does talk a lot more than listen and does not accept your point of views most of the time, then you may not really a good match. So be observant of your geek date from time to time because there are some singles who think that they are always right and above than anyone else.

If you're dating the nice and humble type of single, then you can also show your sense of humor because intellectual daters enjoy humorous people. Take note that intelligent individuals could sometimes forget to inject humor during the discussion because their views are mainly based on intellectual topics and subjects so it can get dull sometimes. As the saying goes, "Laughter is the best medicine", so at least one of you should know or both try how to make each other laugh so that there is life within every conversation that you'll have. A good date match should not create boring moments most of the time but a fun and interesting one.

Well, if you're really attracted to the "nerdy" types then you may try to visit museums, geek shops, bookstores, university libraries or join dating sites that cater for smart and brainy individuals. You will just post a nice and well written description of your profile so that you're able to connect with another member through the dating site. There are dating sites online that are catered mostly to bring nerds, intellectuals, geeks, or whatever others call these smart people so that they can meet other members or singles for casual dating or even long-term relationships in the world wide web. 

These are some of the places that you will likely meet a person who likes intellectual topics and quests. Consider compatibility because it's also a big factor in any relationship whether you can meet your partner online or offline. If you can meet your potential date in a museum then the exhibit that both of you have recently seen is already a nice thing to talk about or if you can meet him or her in a bookstore then the book that you want to purchase or the one that he or she is reading can be a good start to talk about as well. 

Try to go out for coffee or tea and invite this person if he or she has a free time. Many singles who are also avid readers generally go to coffee or tea shops for a relaxing stopover. You can also talk with your new date in one of the nice and clean coffee shops in the city because it could be a peaceful environment where you are able to chat with him or her. You can also go somewhere else in a nice setting that either of you has never been before so that you can comment about it as well as share in the new experience that can create a place to start for a good conversation.

Start to ask some questions about your date that can stimulate and spark his or her senses. Respectfully present your own point of views if your date has his or her own views that you disagree with. Avoid accepting immediately what your date has to say as the correct information or fact just because you know that he or she is an intellectual person. There are dating partners that may easily feel pressured and affected negatively by intelligent singles whom they are dating that is why they just keep on nodding whatever they say.

If this will be the constant set-up of your meeting then it can make a very boring relationship. No one is right all the time so even the smartest singles can make mistakes or have wrong ideas too. It's up to you to accept it or not. Actually, dating singles who are smart and brainy can be a good thing because you can also learn a lot from them and challenge yourself to acquire new knowledge by your own means like you'll also be interested in reading or researching. Although it may also require some level of patience and your willingness to explore new theories, ideas and opinions. 

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